Hi Marguerite, It is lovely to hear from you. We are
so lost and lonely without our precious boy. He was the
reason our hearts beat and right now finding the strength to live
each day is very hard. I am so grateful for your help and
prayers. This disease is just so awful there is no reason why our
wonderful boys had to suffer. I only hope I can find the
strength like you to honour Christopher and make people aware of
this disease, and how wonderful he was.
Christopher was born 18th August 1994 in Scotland. We
came to the USA in 2001, and we were so happy. California
was home to us. Late December 2003, we started to notice
Christopher had nervous tics and problems at school. We went
to a pediatrician, and Christopher was referred to neurologist.
After a hard struggle to convince he needed it, we were told he
had
tourettes
syndrome. I then went home read about tourettes, and it
didn't add up so we had to fight for an MRI and that was when the
bottom fell out our world. We were told he had changes and after
blood tests was diagnosed with ALD. I have no family
history, and as yet I still have not been tested as a carrier but
at that time all I could think off was saving our boy. He
was diagnosed on 18th June 2004 and we were on a plane 7th July
2004 to Durham to the wonderful team at Duke for stem cell
transplant, which Christopher had on 3rd September 2004,
Unfortunately by late September the disease progressed rapidly and
Christopher lost the ability to communicate, eat, talk, walk we
were losing our wonderful boy. Christopher's last wish was
to go home to his family in Scotland and Andy and I were
determined to make that happen. He left the transplant unit
in November and we looked after him at home until 1st February
when with the help of the Make a Wish Foundation we took
him home to Scotland. He was there 5 weeks when he went to
Heaven peacefully at home with the 4 of us like he loved listening
to Shrek 2 movie.
There
is not an hour passes I don't think of him. He was an
amazing boy. Everyone who met him loved him he loved life so
much and his dog Jiggs was his buddy. He loved yugioh
cards, and his gameboy and ate pizza till it came out his
ears. I miss him so much and cant believe he is gone.
We are trying our best to get on. We gave up work when he
was diagnosed and financially we have survived on charity our work
colleagues and family and friends have been amazing and without
them we would not be able to live right now. Our wish would
be to bring Christopher's dog Jiggs here to be with us he is with
foster family in Durham and we are unable to bring him over I know
it would help us a lot to have his dog here he loved him. We
also have nothing here of home all our belongings and personal
things are in California we left in such a hurry and when we left
Durham we had arranged a shipping agency to take the things but
unfortunately they were not a reputable company and we were ripped
off and our things were never shipped. Luckily our friends in
California tracked the things down and they are safe in storage,
we appreciate anything you can do to help us rebuild our life.
ALD attacks the entire family and causes devastation and
heartbreak. Its effect on our family is tragic. In
less than a year our wonderful boy was stricken down and taken
from us, and we are left now asking why?
I hope I am able to talk to you more and thank you again you
are like an angel to us. Right now we don't know where to start
repairing the devastation. God bless.